By DiAnn Mills @DiAnnMills
Most people speed through the holidays with excitement and enthusiasm. They enjoy the many gatherings alongside family and friends, while some people sink into a well of depression. They feel alone and abandoned. Staying sensitive to the needs of others enables us to bless those who are emotionally and physically suffering.
A friend said it best, “Holidays aren’t always the joyous times of the year everybody thinks they are. Being sensitive to someone’s psychological status can be tricky but can greatly benefit the giver and the recipient of kindness and compassion.”
What are a few ways we can stay sensitive to the needs of others that show every day isn’t about us, especially the holidays? Pray how God would want you to help the unfortunate.
- Begin with friends and neighbors. Will any of them spend Thanksgiving and Christmas alone? Request the person(s) to spend the holiday with you. A statement, “The day wouldn’t be the same without you,” makes the person feel wanted. Consider asking them for their favorite dish or recipe.
- Churches often have a list of those who need food, companionship, or financial assistance.
- Contact a local hospital to see if patients who are spending a holiday there could use a few moments of visiting cheer. Be mindful of the patient’s physical or mental health.
- Hospitality woven with sincere love is the key. Offer to deliver a holiday meal to a shut-in. Make it festive! Use appropriate decorations with your delivery. These can be found at your local dollar store. Encourage a smile by wearing a laughable outfit. Consider a gift item.
- Host a holiday movie night. Don’t forget the goodies that the guest enjoys.
- Invest financially. For a family member or friend who lives miles away and will spend a holiday in solitude, consider financing transportation and other costs required for the trip. Include the person in conversation and activities. Understand no one wants to be pitied or feel like a charity case.
- Invite others to church presentations or community holiday specials. This is a time of year when people can be receptive to God.
- Pray for all those who feel the weight of depression from illness, job loss, a recent tragedy, or an emotional, spiritual, or physical burden. Listen for the silent cries for help. Be prepared to offer resources.
- Schedule a visit to a nursing home. Many of these people long for company. If you are a musician or singer, offer a small concert to cheer their hearts. Sometimes a listening ear is the best gift of all.
- Volunteer at a shelter to spread love and encouragement.
Spending a holiday alone, depressed, or in need is a true crisis. Consider how you will bless others and find unexpected blessings in an unlikely place. You may find your holiday spirit of giving lasts all year long.
Do you have a suggestion for how we can stay sensitive to other’s needs?
